Why do we do what we do
Some day’s you feel like you are drowning. And you don’t know what to do about it. Today is one of those days.
And all I can manage to do right now is to just study, I study human behavior. Over and over again.
That’s the only thing that works when I am sad.
Search for an explanation I guess..
I don’t feel like doing anything else so I’m sorry but I can at least give you some of what I’ve learned tonight….
Here is what Tony Robbins have to say about ; Why people do what they do.
We all have a reason for WHY we do the things that we do. And there are only 6 reasons.
6 reasons to figure out what drives us. They are not goals and not desired. We all have different goals and desires.
These 6 reasons, we all share, each one of us The reason we all are so different is because we value these reasons different.
They are called The 6 Human Needs.
- Certainty
- Uncertainty ( need variety, surprise )
- Significance ( need to feel special/unique )
- Connection & Love
- Growth
- Contribution (need to share ones experience with others )
Here is a very interesting fact about our mind:
“Anytime your mind proceeds that Doing something, Believing something or Feeling something meets at least 3 of your needs. Then you will become addicted to that thought, that feeling, that emotion or that action.
Whether its positive or negative for you. ” Tony Robbins
Good night. xx
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